Defending Homosexuality is a Tragedy Within a Tragedy!

By Don Boys, Ph.D.


Society has fallen in love with discourtesy, darkness, and deviancy and fails to realize that this abnormal love affair will end in death. Even some Christians defend it! It will mean death to individuals, the family, the culture, and the nation. Go visit the ruins of Sodom. I have tried to make a contribution to ameliorate the problem without much success.


The committee hearing room at the Capitol Building was packed, mostly with the media and opponents to my bill to reinstate sodomy as a crime as it had been in Indiana for about a hundred years. My opponents all had their allotted time to oppose my bill and one was a professor at Indiana University. He said that homosexuals “only wanted to be left alone.” I laughed.


In defense of my bill I told him that sodomy should be a crime again to give police the authority to stop the cruising in city parks, sex in public restrooms, and discourage molesting of little boys. I ended by saying that homosexuals want much more than to be left alone. “They want respectability. They want to move into a house in the suburbs, park matching Volvos in the driveway and be accepted as normal people; but that won’t happen as long as Christians live in this state.”


In recent years, homosexuals have demanded and received not only acceptance and approval, but even applause. We are told it is even commendable and courageous to practice perversion! And even Bible-oriented church leaders have joined the chorus!


Obviously, I was wrong! Evangelical church members are leading the parade for same sex “marriage” and doing it claiming they are true followers of Christ. However, sodomy is a tragedy and Christians’ defense of that sin is a tragedy within a tragedy.


Never has so much been surrendered by so many to so few. This surrender proves that when Christians’ faith and a controversial issue are at odds, weak Christians fold. After all, one must be modern, cool, and “with it.”


It’s a fact, “The Times They Are A-Changing” especially in the area of courtesy, courage, and commitment. To their credit, the Homosexual Lobby has performed an absolutely incredible coup d’état in about 20 years by changing America’s attitude about sodomy. Sodomy was defined by Noah Webster in the 1800s as a “crime against nature.” The 1833 Encyclopedia Britannica identified sodomy as “The nameless crime, which was the disgrace of Greek and Roman civilization.”


Today, one is anathematized if he even uses the words “sodomy,” “degenerate,” or “pervert.” And while “same sex marriage” was not even considered possible, even worth discussing by decent people only five years ago, one is considered unloving, unkind, uneducated, and uncivil if he advocates the quaint notion that marriage is only between a man and a woman.


And he is super-quaint if he holds that marriage is for a lifetime! He may also become unemployed for his belief in biblical decency. Yes, times are a-changing.


Guide is a homosexual magazine that published a pro-pedophile editorial in its July, 1995 issue. It referred to pedophiles as “prophets” of sexual freedom! The editorial opined: “We must listen to our prophets. Instead of fearing being labeled pedophiles, we must proudly proclaim that sex is good, including children’s sexuality. . . . Surrounded by pious moralists with deadening antisexual rules, we must be shameless rulebreakers (sic), demonstrating our allegiance to a higher concept of love. We must do it for the children’s sake.”


Of course, always “for the children’s sake.” Hand me a barf bag!


Love is not the justification for marriage. If that were true then three or four people can be

married since they “love” each other. Or, a man could “love” his goat but few sane people would

approve such an arrangement. Why could not a man marry his son thereby circumventing estate

taxes? While sane people find that possibility abhorrent, it can be justified with warped, wicked,

and wanton thinking. After all, the most persuasive case against incest is the danger of



But then, who knows? Many professing Christians or church members would come to his

defense! And therein lies the rub. The reason the Homosexual Lobby captured society (especially

the media, education, and government) is because church members have become unprincipled,

uncaring, uncourageous, and are now unnecessary. Many Christians have no problem with “the

love that dare not speak its name.”


Christians have been bullied, badgered, and blackmailed into accepting the homosexual lifestyle

or is that death style? However, the Bible condemns this perversion; furthermore, it also

condemns those who defend perversion: “Woe to those who call evil good, and good evil…”

(Isaiah 5:20). That’s where we are today.


So, the problem is not only with moral perversion but the cowardly capitulation of Christians

who remain silent about the evil or even defend it! Above all, they must be perceived by their

friends as loving, modern, cool, and hip. Such “Christians” should be kicked out of their churches if

they do not repent. It seems that some civic clubs have higher standards than some churches.


A good illustration of this principle was recounted in a Chattanooga area church where a mother

was required to choose between her church (where she had attended for 60 years) and her lesbian

daughter. The daughter had successfully advocated to make government benefits available to

same sex “spouses.” Her family supported her homosexual advocacy. Church officials met with

the mother and two other relatives and told them “They could repent for their sins and ask

forgiveness in front of the congregation… or leave the church.” Well finally, a church that

practices church discipline. Of course, for doing so, they are called “unloving,” “haters,” and

“bigots.” That’s easier than dealing with the issue.


The lesbian daughter whined, “Literally, they’re exiling members for unconditionally loving

their children – and even extended family members.” Her dad told CNN, “Loving her daughter

and supporting her family was not a sin.” Dad declared, “There was nothing to repent about.”


He added. “They certainly couldn’t judge her on that because that was between her and her God,

and it was not their place to judge her for that.”


I am not without sympathy for the family; however, Scripture must rule, not sentimentalism.

Principled people do what is right even when it hurts. The family was not being judged for

“unconditionally loving” but for defending perversion. Moreover, it was the church’s place or

right, even obligation, to make a judgment. The family refused to repent and left the church.


The church was not demanding that the family turn their back on their daughter but to turn their

back on her sin. There is a difference. We don’t make decisions about right and wrong depending

on our relationship to a person.


For Christians to defend and declare homosexuality as acceptable rather than denounce it is a

major tragedy within a tragedy.


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